@djsumdog some folks have to wait a while for good shit to happen. I was 42 before I met the right person by which time I had practically given up. I've noticed in my life so far that good things have a habit of only turning up once you've stopped expending effort looking for them. I can't think of a way to put that without it sounding glib.
Hitchhiker.social is a Mastodon instance created by Sumit Khanna, a technologist and blogger out of Chicago. This is an experimental instance that's currently invite only.